Hello knotties! Recently engaged (just last month) but
having a long engagement, & wondering when is an appropriate time to ask my friends to be my maids?!
Our date is set for the first week of October in 2013. So that gives me a year & 10 months engagement (as of now). I will have 4 bridesmaids - all friends (I'm an only child & all cousins etc live too far to have them make that kind of committment). 3 of my maids have been the closest friends to me for the last 7 years or so, and they are all friends through me so they get along well. The 4th is my fiance's sister (who is getting married this Nov & I'm a BM in her wedding).
I am anxious to propose to them - I already feel overwheled by all the choices & details (I want a rustic wedding but cannot seem to find a venue that fits my style- they are all so perfect & elegant lol). Anyway it would be great to have them on board early to at least know the direction I'm going in, colors, start looking at dresses, and just help me all around. But I don't want to be inappropriate either if now is too early. I was thinking of proposing on Valentine's Day... they are all single & I know they hate that day, so I was hoping it would give them something to be excited about. (Make an anti V-day date with them & pop the question with hand-made gifts).
I've never been a BM, don't know a THING about weddings lol. This will prob be my first of many posts!
Any suggestions from those of you who have been through this, or are currently going through this?
Is V-day too soon? If so, when do you suggest? Wedding date is Oct 2013.
Thank you!!