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shower invite question

My wonderful bridesmaids have generously offered to throw me a shower. I am not involved in the planning or anything but one of my bridesmaids asked me for a list of people I would like there. How many people is appropriate? I have only ever been to one other bridal shower before and that one was HUGE so I am really not sure what is normal. Also, I have a really small family and my fiancees family live far away so I have more friends on the list than I do family. Is this okay?
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Re: shower invite question

  • edited December 2011
    First, go back to your bridesmaids and ask them how many people they can host.  They may have space/budget constraints that would limit the guest list, and it's better to ask now then find out after you give them a big guest list.

    I'm sure you know that anyone invited to the shower must be invited to the wedding.  On top of that, there isn't a prescribed ratio of family and friends that you have to invite.  Invite the people to whom you are closest.
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