My wonderful bridesmaids have generously offered to throw me a shower. I am not involved in the planning or anything but one of my bridesmaids asked me for a list of people I would like there. How many people is appropriate? I have only ever been to one other bridal shower before and that one was HUGE so I am really not sure what is normal. Also, I have a really small family and my fiancees family live far away so I have more friends on the list than I do family. Is this okay?