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what can i do with a Jr Bridesmaid?

karaovercashkaraovercash member
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in September 2012 Weddings
hey ladies, i need some ideas for what to do with a Jr BM in stead of bringing her to the bachelorette party. she will be involved in the bridal shower and has already said about the bachelorette party too but she is only 9.

my MOH has booked a Limo and all guests will be required to have a feather boa (mine will be white and all others will have different colors). the limo will be picking us up from the Bachelor party location, then take us to a few places for our bachelorette party while the guys do thier things and then we will meet back up afterwards. (all girls in the bachelorette party, their husbands/boyfriends are invited to the bachelor party too... thats why we are all meeting up afterward)

i want something special to do with the JR Bridesmaid to jkeep her included. she is 9, have any ideas?
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  • AriesAngel86AriesAngel86
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    My only thought would be if you start out the night somewhere for dinner (that is tame enough for a 9 year old to be involved). Otherwise, I wouldn't worry about it. It's not your fault that a bachelorette party isn't appropriate for a 9 year old.
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  • volleygurl0306volleygurl0306 member
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    Agree with PP.  The bach party is meant to be more "adult" whether that means risque or alcohol-related or whatever.  No one would expect you to have a bachelorette party suited for a 9 year old and if I were your MOH I'd be disappointed to plan one to suit a 9 year old (I know the b-party was my MOH's highlight of her role).  Why not just have a "bachelorette day" with her and go to a pool and then to get your nails done just the two of you some time around the day of your b-party?  This way she still gets a special event to be involved in without you missing out on having the wild night you deserve.
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  • smartlyprettysmartlypretty member
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    Yeah...I wouldn't worry about this too much. She's 9- not 17. I like the idea of doing some kind of spa type day with her. Take her swimming or go the park or something and then go get your nails done. 
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  • cronin85cronin85
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    I have a Jr. Bridesmaid as well, she is 13.  She will be at the Bridal shower, but not the bachlorette.  She also happens to be my sister, so I am planning on bring her for a mani/pedi the day before the wedding (just me and her)
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  • nikbaylornikbaylor
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    We are planning on having a spa day a day or two before the wedding with all the bridesmaids, junior bridesmaid and flowergirl.  This way we can have "girl time" with everyone involved.   It will be simple, basically just everyone getting their nails done, but it will be nice to have that time to relax with all the girls in the midst of the pre-wedding madness!
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