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just need to vent...

Hi ladies...I'm getting married in 32 days....is anyone else exhausted??? OMG I just can't wait for the honeymoon. I mean don't get me wrong I'm so excited for the big day but its wearing me out. I never knew there were so many little details toward th end. I'm planning it myself...I didn't think I needed a planner. My fiance has been great but still I'm so tired. And to top it off my boss could care less about my wedding and now she is making me go on a business trip two weeks before....and she asked if I would go on another trip a week before that and I had to say no...she was like "oh yeah I forgot...the wedding"
I'm sorry I've just never really vented to anyone...thanks for listening!!

Re: just need to vent...

  • katiebean1katiebean1 member
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    edited December 2011
    I am sorry you are so stressed out! Try to relax and remember at the end of your wedding day you will still be married to the man of your dreams so it doesn't matter if every little detail is perfect =]...I just hope I can follow this advice next year when I am getting married Wink
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  • edited December 2011
    You are completely normal, unfortunately.  There are so many details left at the end.  Especially those last few weeks when you're confirming everything, people are always talking to you, and you're racking your brains trying not to forget anything.  In the days before my wedding, I didn't sleep for more than 4 hours... I don't know how many days before.  We even took a day before leaving for the honeymoon, but had a bbq with some friends.  Then we went home to pack, left that night at 10 PM for Indy, and got on a plane at 6:45 AM... When we got to our hotel, it was morning (west coast time).  We went to the sports book, had some drinks, and when they called us for our room we were both ready to drop.  Our room had separate beds, and we both fell asleep fully dressed on top of the beds.  14 hours later, we woke up, got food, and went back to sleep.  That's what the honeymoon is really for! 

    Sorry for my novel, I just want to let you know it is common.  Can you delegate tasks?  Would a DOC help?  Or is it just stuff you have to do?  Vent away anytime!
  • edited December 2011
    I'm right there with you.  It's amazing how many things there are to track.  I have so many lists because I'm trying not to forget anything.

    It's hard, but I try to be patient with others and remember that no one will care about our wedding as much as FI and I.

    Good luck!  Your day will be great.
  • edited December 2011
    Kris, planning a wedding can be a full time job!  If you find you need a little help please let me know. We love working with brides in your situation where they have done almost all of the work, but just ran out of time and hands.  My company is a concierge/errand company and we have now been working with brides to assist them in executing the plans they have so diligently prepared.  We are smart, professional and we take direction well!  Call if you need us.  

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  • edited December 2011
    15 days and counting and between work, school and wedding, I look like a zombie and feel that way too....
  • edited December 2011
    thanks everyone...i'm glad i'm not the only one...i've got 26 days to go and although still exhausted i'm getting soooo excited too...good luck everyone!!
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