Hello! I will be attending the Civil Ceremony of a very dear friend of mine tomorrow evening. It is going to be a small intimate ceremony by the J of P, with only about 16 of us in attendance. It is going to take place at her family friends home, and we will have drinks and appetizers after the ceremony. They are planning a big backyard barbecue reception for early June for the extended family and friends.
My question... gift!!! Do I give them a gift tomorrow (I was planning on at least a card), or wait until the big ceremony? Do I get them something small tomorrow, and then give them something bigger at the ceremony. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!! Thanks.