My fiance and I have been together a little over 18 months. We just got engaged and chose a date for next September 2011. All I have heard from his mom is that we are rushing things and need to postpone. She has even offered to call my parents and explain to them why we are so wrong. She keeps saying we shouldn't get married in a year, we should wait until we are both in our careers for several years and comfortable before we even PLAN the wedding. I think she is crazy and find all this talk really hurtful; my fiance keeps saying "I don't understand it but if its no big deal to wait then why not to keep her happy?" I feel like we should call the shots to our own life. Am I crazy? What do I do? This is seriously sucking all the happiness out of being engaged.
BTW- we picked a date, location, photographer and I picked a dress before she said anything