So FI and I got engaged in July and figured we would start heavy planning in August but I fell and broke my leg and required surgery so we put it off because I was in constant pain, going to therapy 5 times a week, and in really bad shape after surgery.
So I finally get back to work and we start planning again and my grandpap gets really sick and passes away so we put things on hold again especially financially because I was paying for the end of life care of my pap and all the funeral arrangements.
In the middle of all of this, the day I broke my leg our offer on our house was accepted and we are moving and renovating our new house.
Needless to say, its been a stressful 6 months that we have finally just gotten to finish up the wedding stuff. We are sending Christmas cards out this weekend with our STD's but I just realized one tinsy weenie detail... I forgot to ask my 2 friends to be in my bridal party. Ive been talking wedding stuff with them but it completely escaped my mind that I never officially asked them.
FI had already asked his friends, my best friend just assumed she was my MOH(which she is), and my cousin my 2nd MOH(which she is).
I feel like a total jerk. I am going to rectify this situation this weekend when I see them but I am so scared they are going to think they are "second best" or some other negative thing but I just seriously got overwhelmed with life when I broke my leg.
I havent gotten my dress yet or anything like that we just have been booking vendors. I really want these girls there but I dont want to hurt their feelings either. I am so fustrated with myself that I could be such a jerk.
