So my fiancé and I have been engaged for less than a month and my mother is taking over already. My fiancé and I both want a small quiet beach wedding (the beach it 45 minutes from our home).
My mother's bare bones list is over 200 people! She also seems to think the drive is to far and that family will not show up to the wedding. I have bent and told her we can do the reception locally. She is now looking for locations that have beautiful outdoor venues as well because she is sure she can talk me out of holding the ceremony at the beach.
I am letting my mother have her say since she is paying for the most of the wedding, but how to I make her understand that this is my day and there are certain things that I am just not willing to give up?
HELP!