My FI and I both have children from our previous marriages (he has a 9 yo son & I have an 8 yo son) and we would like to include them in with our sand cermony we will be doing. The reading we will be using also includes our children and I was trying to figure out how we should do this.
The way we wanted to do it at first would be for me to have a jar of sand, my FI to have a jar of sand, and our boys to have a jar of sand (and then of course pour them all together to show the joining of us all). However the more I think about it, would it make more sense to just have the 2 jars and 1 would be for both FI and his son and the other for myself and my son? I've never actually been to a wedding where they did a sand cermony so wasn't sure how this would be handled in our situation. Any ideas? TIA!
(Also posted this on the second weddings board)