Tears!

Sunshine811 · July 2012

Hi Everyone,

I ahven't posted in a few weeks because I have been busy busy busy! (As I know all of you are!) But here I am at work today, thinking its all coming in 2 weeks, and I can't stop crying! Not because I'm sad; I'm very very excited to be married to my man, but i'm just so stressed and overwhelmed and I'm sure it doesn't help that aunt flo is coming. I just want to be happy, and I feel like with all the stress this is impossible and then i feel guilty that I am stressed and being a bridezilla, I'm so afraid of that word but I don't know if I can help.

Give me some encouragement my friendly August brides. It will all be ok, it will all be ok, IT WILL ALL BE OK!!!!!!

ohnoitskaroljo · July 2012

I'm right there with you!! I am CONSTANTLY on the verge of tears and I can't focus on ANYTHING else. It'll definitely all be OK - pretty soon it'll be all over

[Deleted User] · July 2012

It will all be WONDERFUL! I'm sorry you're stressed, remember that it will be perfect even if things don't go exactly as planned.

skeppler1 · July 2012

Hang in there and try to enjoy the little time you have left. I am at the point where we have been planning our wedding for so long that whatever happens, happens. It will just make it that more special. I am sure you have done a fantastic job and you should be proud on what you have accomplished. Your day will be beautiful and so will you.
It will be all OK

20pearls16 · July 2012

Well if aunt Flo is coming now, she'll be out of town when the wedding is here. That is encouraging enough LOL.

ohnoitskaroljo · July 2012

HAHA I KNOW THAT'S RIGHT Pearls!! Mine is starting right now - I was THRILLED when I realized I wouldn't have my period on the big day LOL. I'm due to get it about 4 days after the wedding =x LMAO

Lena2317 · July 2012

LOL.. yes TOM is visiting me now as well and I'm ready for him to go:) Changed name because women already get blamed for everything lol.. Good news is we definitely dont have to worry about it for the wedding or the honeymoon if you are going the next day!!! We can do this girl... Almost there!

Sunshine811 · July 2012

Thanks so much ladies!!!! I really appreciate your encouragement!

PeanutThomas · July 2012

Ahhh, the beauty of birth control pills.... I was actually able to calculate (almost a year in advance!!) when we should and shouldn't have our wedding to avoid Aunt Flo.

I keep stressing (omg people still haven't RSVP'd, omg my DIY garland isn't long enough and it took me months to finish, omg omg omg), but I have to remind myself that as long as FI and I are Mr. & Mrs. by the end of the day, our wedding will have been a success. That's kind of the whole point of a wedding, isn't it?

LibbyC730 · July 2012

Haha...love it. The last time I went in for an annual exam I mentioned I was getting married this year. The nurse got super excited and printed out a calendar and circled all my "start" days on my current cycle and then changed when I'd go on again the next month to avoid the wedding altogether. I think she was more excited about the wedding than I was!
I've given myself one little wedding project to do each day so I don't get overwhelmed. My biggest issue is I hate asking for help. So I'll encourage the both of us to take that advice--delegate! Good luck and it will all work out beautifully!

eguzman2323 · July 2012

The key word is DELEGATE! Delegate all that you can to the people you trust the most : Thats what is helping me right now with just 9 days from the wedding : Good luck! And everything will be ok :

jspeed83 · July 2012

I am right there with you too..... I am unable to concentrate on work, and haven't slept much in the past two nights. I am hoping it gets better once my BMs are here and I can delegate some of the left over things.

You are not alone!!!

In the end of this, as long as you walk away married, it doesn't matter if things don't go exactly as planned!!! I keep telling myself this.

Tears!

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