My fiance and I already know that we don't want kids at our reception.
We sent out the STDs already since most of his family lives on the other end of the country. We made sure that the envelopes were just addressed to the invited people ("Mr. and Mrs. John Smith," not "The Smith Family"), but now I'm not sure if people are just going to make assumptions and plan to bring their kids.
Can I put somewhere on my wedding website (in the Reception Information section, perhaps) something like this? "No children, please. We would be happy to help arrange for a babysitter for the evening."
I just don't want our OOT guests to get a nasty slap in the face in this summer when they receive an invitation for 2 when they've already booked plane tickets for 4. And I think it'd be funny to call every person on my FI's guestlist who's received an STD to make sure they know not to bring their kids when the invitations haven't gone out. Right?
Advice, please!!!