My fiance and I both have HUGE families and ironically, want to keep our wedding small. After doing the first draft of guests, we ended up with over 150 people and weren't even done with his family and close friends. I wouldn't mind having 100 people, but he is wanting to invite people who I have never even heard of and I know he hasn't talked to these family members in about 5 years. I understand that they are family, however I think it would be more 'us' if we had it small and intimate with our close friends and family. How can I make it so that if we do have only 100 people, the remaining number of people won't be offended. Nobody is helping us pay for our wedding which is why we are trying to keep it so small. Any suggestions would be appreciated
Thanks ladies!