I've never done a poll, but I think I've found a good use for it. Are "donation" favors tacky? It's just that I've been to TONS of weddings and I always have a little trinket or something at the end of the night that I have to keep track of and then feel bad when I throw it away (or it breaks or whatever) 6 months later. Because of our/my dislike for useless junk, FI and I are thinking of donating to 2 organizations close to our hearts in honor of our guests (in lieu of favors). We would give guests a card (with maybe a piece of candy) and a note letting them know. .... but is this tacky?
Many of our guests are out of town and I want them to feel appreciated and loved (because they are!), but I don't want to give them one more thing to hang onto
. Let me know your thoughts....