I attended a wedding in September and gave the couple money through their honeymoon registry. I never got a thank you note, which kind of surprised me considering I'm a student and gave $200 in an attempt to cover our plates. I thought it was somewhat generous given my circumstances, and the bride and groom are not rude or selfish people, so I'm worried that the lack of a thank you note means they somehow didn't receive the donation. I don't know the couple very well (my boyfriend is friends with the groom, I was just his date) so I don't feel bold enough to ask if they got it. I also don't think they ever went on a honeymoon, so could the lack of note just mean they're abusing the rule about sending notes after they get back? :P Anyway, I really couldn't care less about not getting a note, except for the fact it may mean they didn't get the gift. Is there a tactful way to approach this? I want to make sure they don't think we didn't get them a gift!