Going Crazy!

marisolgarcia1 · September 2012

Ok - I think this wedding is making me crazy! I am stressed and I find myself crying over everything. making the big things seem bigger and the smaller things seam as big as day.

Is anyone feeling this? Or am I the only one.

NRod70 · September 2012

You're not the only one. I just finished a long-winded post about something my brother did/said that is REALLY bothering me. And yeah, I want to cry over everything about now!!!

minionlover · September 2012

I am sure I will get that way. I did alot of crying when we were trying to pick our location and date and when I was creating our invites.

lehc723 · September 2012

Same. I hope no one expects me to be a pleasant person until October 7th.

achiduck · September 2012

I haven't been upset crying, but my dentist called to cancel my root canal which REALLY pissed me off because apparently she was sick yesterday too and they didn't call until 8:45 today after I had already taken my sedative so I can't drive and go to work. I almost cried at that, but I think more because I was stressed then anything.

I did however get REALLY pissed off when FI told me one of is BMs is going overseas this week to marry his girlfriend (who he doesn't even love) to get her into the country. Apparently they can get around the immigration laws b/c he was born in the country that she lives in and has dual citizenship both there and here. So now we aware of this sham marriage and if immigration calls us I'm not about to lie for this loser and he's screwed. It pisses me off because his friend clearly doesn't realize the consequences of his actions but I feel like it makes a mockery of ours. Plus his "wife" will be at our wedding and now I have to pretend like their actually married. Ugh.

islandmonkey8 · September 2012

I'm right there with you all! FI & I got in a huge fight last night over it all. I broke down crying. Luckily in the end with both said we were sorry, made up, and THINK we have a solution to what the argument was over (rehearsal dinner invites and his parents being stupid about it).

Take some deep breaths and take a break from it all. I find stepping away for even an hour or two helps a lot.

mmmendi · September 2012

I'm not sure. I found myself more emotional with FI than I have flat ever been period. I have had a few things, but I haven't really had a break down and cry moment I don't think. I could have, and just forgotten! I have a ridiculously cut and dry personality - so as long as I have things progressing on the 'list' then I am ok. We are down to crunch time, I suppose, but it is just payments to be made and appointments to show up to. The only big thing is probably the cake = and although it 'should' be a done deal, this is actually one that FI needs to follow up on. Now. I am a little stressed about his willingness to let me do it all, but tomorrow I plan to say - we are now at 30 days and I need you to take care of this by 20 days. The other things he isn't doing (he has an awful memory. I'm not kidding to say I'm just happy he knows the wedding date) I can let go, it isn't so big. Cake? Cake is big! LOL

LoriMc12 · September 2012

Hey, I got teary eyed in my car after leaving JoAnn's! A craft store! I was so frustrated that their website and stores don't match up in terms of stock (understandable) and sales (NOT understandable!) I drove 20 minutes to JoAnn's to buy the rest of my flowers at 50% off (online price). I got to the store and they were not 50% off. The clerk said I could go home, print the online price and they would honor it. I was just fed up at that moment and decided to just buy the flowers and save my time (and sanity). I did go to Panera for mac and cheese afterwards and I felt better. So, long story short, YES, I am more emotional than normal! I agree with PP that I am probably not going to be the most pleasant person the next 6 weeks!

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