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WP need help

annanoel21annanoel21
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My MOH is giving me problems. She has got to where she won't answer me calls/texts. Let me say i have been super nice to these girls. I will check in to make sure things are good. I have not been a demanding B. I have been trying to figure out where the dresses are and if they are on schedule. I call DB and they can find 2 of my girls but can't find her.

So I text her and said look, I understand you've got somethings going on in your life.... trying to find out about the dresses to make sure they are on schedule ....

Well about 5 hrs later she decides to reply being super pissy. "I already told you the dresses have been taken Care of! Lisa her roommate ordered it. It got shipped to the wrong address blah blah blah"

Well I called DB back and there is still no record or her or Lisa ordering the dress. I've texted her trying to get with her several days this week with no reply. But yet she can put crap on her fb. I'm ready to bump her.
I'm at the point that I do not care if she is in it or not. She was not there for any of my parties and has not been a moh like she should have.
I think I'm going to tell my other girl that I'm going to move her up. If christi decides to get her stuff together, fine, but for now she will be stuck as a BM not MOH! IF SHE ACTUALLY SHOWS
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  • islandmonkey8islandmonkey8 member
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    edited September 2012
    Take a deep breath. At this point, I would just let it be. If she shows up in her dress, great! If not, oh well. All that matters is you and FI will be there. I know it's hard, but this late in the game I would just try my best to let whatever is going to happen, happen.
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  • mmmendimmmendi
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    That does sound frustrating! I agree with PP, just let it ride. Decide not to worry - if she shows dressed and ready - great! If no, well, no sweat off your back. This is on her, not you.
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  • ericaandtom2012ericaandtom2012 member
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    edited September 2012
    Take a breath.  If she buys the dress and shows up, great! If she didn't buy the dress, she has removed herself from the wedding party.  Don't demote her/move someone else up or kick her out.  If you take your wedding out out of the equation, do you still want to be friends with this girl? It sounds like she might have something else going on in her life.  Reach out to her (without talking about your wedding) and see what's going on.
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  • annanoel21annanoel21
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    Ive tried to talk to her. I've asked her if she still wants to be in it. She just doesn't try to prove that she wants to be in it. I have no clue if she is telling me the truth or not. I have texted her trying to see if she's okay as well as trying to get together to have a girls day. I have not got a response for 4 days.

    n Response to Re:WP need help:[QUOTE]Take a breath. nbsp;If she buys the dress and shows up, great! If she didn't buy the dress, she has removed herself from the wedding party. nbsp;Don't demote her/move someone else up or kick her out. nbsp;If you take your wedding out out of the equation, do you still want to be friends with this girl? It sounds like she might have something else going on in her life. nbsp;Reach out to her without talking about your wedding and see what's going on. Posted by ericaandtom2012[/QUOTE]
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  • CandiceAdamCandiceAdam member
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    Ugg I was going through this. Turns out MOH's phone was MIA for like 1month and she never bothered to e-mail to let me know or maybe use her wifes phone. Mean while I was in full melt down mode because she was my bff since 1st grade and I couldn't believe how she was acting. Well... she got everything straightened out, still has let me down in some aspects but its no biggie... my other BM are picking up the slack and it has been a great chance for us to get closer again.
    Honestly, if she shows up awesome. If not then I guess you need to choose at that point if she truly is a good friend. Personally, this would be huge to me if she did not show up and I would pretty much call the friendship over because that would mean she would have been just lying the whole time.
    If she has things going on in her life that prevent her from being there then she should just be upfront about it with you and you should be simpathetic to her situation but otherwise I would be over the Drama.
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