I'm getting married April 28 and the RSVP deadline was last week. We have two stragglers and my fiancé has reached out to both (his aunt and one of the grad students he works with). Frustratingly, both replied that they wouldn't know until closer to the date. I'm of the opinion that saying that is incredibly rude and that they need to rsvp - my fiance says it's no big deal and we can wait until the caterer's deadline in two weeks to get their answers. Unfortunately their responses will etermine how many tables we get - if they're both nos we can stick with 8 tables but if either is coming we need one more. I'm frustrated and not sure how to proceed; am I being absurd?
77 Are ready to party!
45 Are missing out!