I originally wanted my wedding in Virginia but my 85 year old   grandmother who lives in NYC said that she is unsure if she can make the   trip.  So now I am looking to see if I can get a venue space that is   inexpensive in the New York City, New Jersey area, like a museum,  mansion, park or something different than  the usual banquet hall.  Any  Ideas???? We were hoping to spend around  6,000 - 7,000 for the venue  and food for about 100 people.