My FI and I wanted a smaller wedding between 100-150 people. Invites have been sent out. Then my mom gets an email from her cousin wondering where her invite was. We are never invited to anything for that side of the family so she told me not to send invites. Well now she is feeling guilty and wants me to send out more invites. My parents are paying for most of it so no big deal. Our venue holds up to 209 people. I just feel bad because they are last minute guests. Our RSVP is the 17th. Fi also told me the other day he invited a few more co workers because they wanted to come. I wish people would stop inviting themselves. Now my worry is we will have more than 209 because my mom and fi can't say no!