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TMI Tuesday

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When you are not in the mood, too tired, or just don't want to do you still have sex with FI if he wanted to? Would you tell him not tonight you aren't in the mood?
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  • matuofmmatuofm member
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    edited December 2011
    Um...I tell him no all the time.  Otherwise, I would never get to school, to work, to the grocery store....lol.

      I am also trying to train him about my preferences.  Like...you can ask all you want, but I am never going to want to have sex after we eat dinner.  I hate full sex.  It ain't gonna happen.  If you would like some afternoon sex, think to initiate before we sit down to dinner.
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  • Meegles4Meegles4 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:88Discussion:747e3ab7-d8e7-4186-ac46-3ca69d5dec84Post:07412399-edb2-480d-8efb-ed34025b9655">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]Um...<strong>I tell him no all the time</strong>.  Otherwise, I would never get to school, to work, to the grocery store....lol.  <strong> I am also trying to train him about my preferences</strong>.  Like...you can ask all you want, but I am never going to want to have sex after we eat dinner.  I hate full sex.  It ain't gonna happen.  If you would like some afternoon sex, think to initiate before we sit down to dinner.
    Posted by matuofm[/QUOTE]

    Oh thank goodness there's someone else out there! For me, it's not so much getting things done, it's just that I'm not in the mood a lot. I'm lame, it's true. Poor guy.

    The second part, I love. I need to do this and completely agree on the after dinner rule.
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  • acaponi87acaponi87 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'd still do it. Odds are I'll get in the mood within a few minutes anyway.  But he knows better then to try in certain circumstances...for example I've been sick with a pretty bad cold/fever the last week.  Definitely don't feel sexy when I've got snot all over my face.  However, when he caught my sickness a few days later and we both felt like crap it was a different story lol.  When you've both got snot dripping down your face sure it's not sexy, but it is kinda funny. 
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  • missmelanie81missmelanie81 member
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    edited December 2011
    Probably not...unless I was sick or something. If Im not in the mood after a bit I will be. FI and I also dont get to have sex alot with our schedules, so if we get a chance, Im not passing it up!
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  • entropicbeautyentropicbeauty member
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    edited December 2011
    90% of the time I won't turn him down, but there are a few circumstances where I'm either just too tired OR if he's been drinking and I'm sober, I find that to be very unfulfilling so have NO problem turning him down then.
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  • MMRoberts11MMRoberts11 member
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    edited December 2011
    If I'm dead I tell him and we don't but otherwise I usually just go for it.
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