So, my wedding is in May of this year and the ceremony is being held in Florida.... theres about 30 ppl invited ( mainly the party and immediate family...) But we are having a traditional reception here in NJ a few months later ( date yet to be decided_ I'm looking for any etiquette suggestions with regards to a bridal shower and bachelorette party... Can I invite those that are invited to the formal reception and not necessarily the wedding???? And if so, should I send out invitations to the formal reception now, so that these people at least know theyre invited to the reception but not the wedding???