So my FSIL decided she wanted us to invite her in-laws to our FAMILY ONLY wedding. FI said yes and even though I was mildly upset I agreed. So I invited her in-laws plus their daugther and son who also has a girlfriend. Well already the daughter and son have said no they are not coming. Ok what was the point of telling them all about it then forcing us to invite them when they don't even want to come? I have been stressing about how our simple wedding had to become a little nicer to accomadate the extra invites since they have to travel to Vegas. Both our families had already said don't worry about a reception (we planned an in-suite reception) but to invite her in-laws we have been trying to find an alternative that was a little nicer.
Now I am so glad my BM said we don't have to invite her parents even though FI's parents said we must. My BM totally understands and I asked her several times if she was sure and she said yes. FSIL is great but can be al little pushy and controling. I am so nervous for my shower on Sunday too since it is at her house. I hope she doesn't try to take it over.