October 2012 Weddings

Shower pics, vent and rant...longish

Just to not clog up the feed with three different posts I"m combining them into one. I'm sorry since this may get long.

I had my shower back on the 9th and FSIL took pictures. She's not a professional but generally her photography is pretty good.  Overall I'm pleased with the quality of the photos themselves. I just don't like how I  look in the pictures. Its translating into a worry about how I will look in the wedding photos. Granted the wedding photos will be done by a professional so I know that has a lot to do with it. The pro knows how to get good flattering posing and such but I'm afraid that I'm going to get my wedding pictures back and I'll not be able to look at them because I hate how I look.  For reference here is the link (clicky) to the shower album. I'm the one in the black floral dress. 

Vent: FI has several family members who physically can not make the drive from Pittsburgh to western OH for the wedding. FMIL is hosting a separate celebration in Pittsburgh several weeks later which was supposed to be mostly for these family members. She sent the invites out to everyone on her side of the invite list though and now (as I feared would happen) people are just opting out of the actual wedding because there's a celebration in PA that they can just attend instead. They are perfectly able to come they just don't want make the drive. I may be somewhat bitter about it though since my own sister is driving 17 hours from Texas to come but the 5 hour drive from pittsburgh is too far. 

Rant: I realize my RSVP date is still over a week away but I still have a majority of them out there. The hotel block closed last week. Come on people! It's a freaking post card. You don't even have to put it in an envelope. I'm doing buffet so you don't have to indicate meal choices. Just write your name, mark how many are coming (or that you can't come) and drop it in the mailbox. Not that freaking hard!
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Re: Shower pics, vent and rant...longish

  • I think your wedding photos will be beautiful.  FSIL captured a lot on candids - where you look like you were talking or distracted.  when you are actually posed, looking at the camera, and smiling you will look lovely.  i hate the way i look in most pics but my engagement pics came out pretty good so im not too worried about the wedding pics

    I'm waiting of 56 cards - my rsvp date is Sept. 29th.  we are waiting on half the WP, FI's dad, and ALL my cousins....among many others obviously.  it is VERY irritating. 
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  • I agree with PP - not to knock for FSIL, but I don't think the pictures taken were good pictures - professional use just the right flash, just the right light - it will be perfectly fine.

    Is there any chance your FMIL can make a phone call or 2 - let those that are ABLE know that the reason for the second celebration and not take away from the first?
  • I would not worry about your wedding photos based on these pictures.  Very few of the pictures looked like posed photos and the ones that were, it looks like you were goofing off (which is totally what I would be doing too).  A professional photographer will help you pose (and hopefully not take pictures while eating!), find the right lighting and utilize the right flash. You'll be all done up and wearing a beautiful dress; I'm sure your pictures will be amazing. 

    I feel you on the RSVPs.  My deadline is Monday and I'm still waiting to hear from 130 people, or about 75 cards.  I do know that there are still rooms available at the hotel and they're getting the group rate, but come on! It's in 4 weeks!!   I'm really glad I gave myself a week before I have to get final numbers to people, because I get the feeling there are going to be a lot of calls to make.
  • If it helps you feel more prepared (and only then--no psyching yuorself out!), you can also find short videos on Youtube giving tips for posing. 
  • It's just bad angles and weird moments when you were talking or eating. No worries! Your wedding pics will be awesome
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  • In Response to Re: Shower pics, vent and rant...longish:
    Thanks for your encouragement ladies.  FI is sweet and keeps telling me how beautiful I am, but I keep telling him he's biased. I'll just have to trust my photog. I've already told her to avoid "eating" pictures as much as possible.

    [QUOTE Is there any chance your FMIL can make a phone call or 2 - let those that are ABLE know that the reason for the second celebration and not take away from the first?
    Posted by megagliardi[/QUOTE]
    Considering at Christmas she was trying to drum up interest and support for it, I doubt it. Everytime we've brought it up that people will skip the actual wedding and go to that instead we get "Well, that's what you should have expected when you decided to get married there instead of closer". I'm sorry I was raised 5 hours from Pittsburgh and that the ceremony is in my home church.  We don't have a church here and I didn't want to get married in just some building that didn't have meaning for at least one of us.  I'm the more religious of the two of us so FI said it made more sense to get married in my church.
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  • Regarding pics: I love the tiny baby!!! (and you look BEAUITFUL also (; ) I also hate myself in pictures- very, very rarely do I find one I find flattering, however on the wedding day, my hair and make up will be emaculate and I love putting trust in the professionals doing the work (photog, too!) Don't worry, there will be great photos of you!

    RSVPs are annoying. We all know this by now, trust me! I understand being frustrated that people are opting out of the actual wedding. That would hurt/bother me a lot.
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