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May 2012 Weddings

NWR - MOH/Sister

Ok so I'll try to make this short. My MOH is my sister. She's like my best friend and I love her to death but she lives 400+ mi away.

I am so upset FOR her. A lot of things have happened just in the last couple of weeks and I'm very worried about her.

1. Her husband walked out and didn't even tell her. Just up and moved from Dallas to houston while she was at work one day. Called and told their 13 yr old son ON THE PHONE when he got home from school. They had had problems for a long time and she knew it would come one day but he could have at least talked to her and said ok I think it's time we do this. Something. She's not that upset he's gone, just that he up and did it that way

2. She was up for a permanent positon at a new job she started a few months ago in a temp position. Twice now they told her the job was hers, then HR hired someone else.

3. yesterday was her birthday, my nephew tells her when she gets home last night he wants to go live with his dad.

I just dont' know how to help her, she's so far away and I feel like saying I'm so sorry isn't enough anymore. Anyone have any suggestions?
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Re: NWR - MOH/Sister

  • My advice is to just be there for her.

    My brother's wife just left him after only 16 months of marriage. It's terrible, but what can you do? (other than want to smack the other person around a little)

    I just call him and try to offer my support however I can. You said her birthday was yesterday, maybe send her something a little extra special?
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  • Oh no! That's awful! What a streak of rotten luck. I once had a boyfriend I had been with for 5 years and living with for 3. He went to visit his mom in Dallas and never came back! We were having problems and I knew it was going to end. Just not the way it did. Some men are such cowards that they can't say "you know this isn't working anymore. I think we should go our seperate ways." Luckily we didn't have any kids. And I feel sorry for the nephew who is stuck between them. My only advice is to be there for her and listen to her. Being far away it can be hard. But let her know she can lean on you for support.

    I wish her luck and hope things turn around for the better. It will take time, but as long you support her, she'll make it through.
  • Oh my, that is terrible. Sending t&p her way! 

    All you can really do is be there for her. My sister/MOH's divorce was filed last October and finalized in January and I just made sure to call her often and see how she was doing. She knew that she could tell me anything about it and I wouldn't tell a soul. 

    Make sure she knows how great she is! The work thing has got to be a huge blow to her ego and you need to tell her that things should not have happened that way and she is awesome and all that jazz. 
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  • That is just awful! I say just be there for her, support her, and listen to her.
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