I have heard that it's standard at a destination wedding to invite everyone to the rehearsal dinner. We would like to do this if possible, since 98% of our guests will be flying in for our destiation wedding, and we'd like some more time with them anyway. However, I am getting the vibe from my FMOH in law that she disagrees. We haven't had a frank conversation about it, but she keeps getting quotes from places for 40 people instead of the 60-70 we plan to invite. She says that she doesn't think everyone will come. I have told my fiance that he needs to have a frank conversation with her about this because we don't want to get stuck with a place that won't fit everyone or ends up being more money than she expected. Thoughts?