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rbwashington2012rbwashington2012 member
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I have told you all about my FFIL from heck. Well I finally had my breaking point and going to start packing up the apartment we live in and we are moving in with my mother for a little while. It gives us enough time to save up for a deposit for an apartment of our own, pay the rest for the wedding and give FI better chances to find a steady job. FFIL told him to go out and find two or three more places for the janitorial business for them to clean. FI just looked at him crazy cause the extra work is for three main reasons, to pay the note on the 40,000 new tractor, the lawyers fees for this divorce he is going thru and to pay his own bills. None of the money FI sees with the family businesses anymore and its putting a serious strain on our relationship (which FFIL is HAPPY about because he rather me leave than marry his son). Trying hard as heck to focus on work in my office but I am ready to break down and cry in this office because I have had it with the stress and nightmares. At this point, his father is dead to me and I don't want him at the wedding.

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  • CowgirlK39CowgirlK39 member
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    Oh wow. Major hugs for you girl. I understand how that feels when nothing you say registered with an IL. Support each other and stay strong... you will get thru this and that stupid FFIL will see! T & P girl!
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  • Sarah&Eric2012Sarah&Eric2012 member
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    I'm so sorry that your FFIL is being such a beast.  He sounds like a very selfish and self centered individual.  I think this might be your best move, to go live with your mom for a bit until you can save up and move out on your own.  I know you've mentioned moving away from the area so that he can't keep hold of your FI.  You and your FI are in my T & Ps.  I hope everything works out in the end.  Until then, vent as much as you need to here and on FB :)
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  • BMcLeodTeamBMcLeodTeam member
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    So sorry you've had to deal with that. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
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  • volleygurl0306volleygurl0306 member
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    BIG HUGS girl!  I think it is very smart of you to get out of there and go live with your mom.  Mom is the best fix to everything!  Stay strong and support each other.  You and FI will get through this.
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  • Laur110Laur110
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    Ugh, I am sorry that you are dealing with this! Sending T&P your way, hoping things work out and improve once you are with your mom!
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  • rbwashington2012rbwashington2012 member
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    Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart ladies for the T&Ps!!!! After talking with FI today, he is trusting me on this and is looking forward to the move. He is a bit scared about it all but he knows its for the best. To make a long story short, he is not use to people like me and my family. We are a seriously close knit family and when we say we take care of our own no matter how much we might fight like cats and dogs at times, we do take care of each other.

    Its going to be a long hard road in front of us but I know things are going to work themselves out. Again thank you all ladies and sending T&Ps to you all in return. <3
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