Wedding Woes

I'm trying to be cool but wwyd?...9 days left

We sent gift cards to our groomsmen to pay for their suit over 2 months ago. I am getting married in 9 days and one of our groomsmen has not purchased their suit yet and had it tailored. I ask fiance for an update daily.

I guess all I can do it take a deep breath. I am an organized easy going bride but this is starting to bug me.

Re: I'm trying to be cool but wwyd?...9 days left

  • Do they have to purchase it at a specific shop?  


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    [QUOTE]Do they have to purchase it at a specific shop?  
    Posted by VarunaTT[/QUOTE]

    Men's wearhouse. There are 3 locations within 15 minutes of him.
  • Well if he doesn't, then you'll just be one short of a groom.... He's old enough that he shouldn't need reminders. So I'd just let it go and if he doesn't get a suit then he's not in the wedding party. 
  • Well, I wouldn't be happy about it, either.  But beyond sitting on the man, there really isn't much you can do to MAKE him do it.

    Men's Warehouse usually has a pretty fast turnaround on tailoring (I think like 3-5 days) and he can always go to another tailor.  Honestly, he's a groomsman, so I'd let FI take care of it. If he cares about his side and this man being there, he'll have a Come to Jesus talk with him.
  • Perhaps you should also send a gift card for a taxi to get his butt over there. I'm going to assume that he has no clue that he can't stroll in the morning of the wedding and grab a suit off the rack. How do you know that he hasn't gone in yet? Is he communicating with your FI?
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  • Yes, they have been communicating and he has said several times he would go and hasn't. Groomsman is a great guy which is why im shocked. He told fiance he is going tonight because fiance told him he was out of time. I guess I tried to make it easy as possible and we paid for it so I figured it couldn't get any more convienent. I am staying out of it but poor fiance has to hear me ask about it every other day.

    Hey, what is a wedding without a wee bit of drama. :)
  • Ladies and gentleladies.... the suit has been purchase. Sigh of relief!
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