My mother is adamant about standing up with us (well, sorta next to us, behind the wedding party, outside the chuppah) during the ceremony. I haven't been to a lot of weddings--and only 1 Jewish wedding--and didn't know this is traditional.The problem is that we are having chuppah holders. So, without the parents, there are going to be 11 people standing up there. Another problem, my fiance's parents are divorced...and both remarried. He's close to his stepmother but doesn't even know his stepfather all that well (mostly due to distance). Jay thinks his parents won't want to be at their child's wedding and not be next to their own spouses. But then that means having 17(!!) people standing up front. I'm honestly not really sure what I'm asking here! Is it weird to have--or not have--stepparents? Too many people? Would it be weird to just have my parents and not his? Any feedback at all?!