Cool as a cucumber...

mdoyle1217 · March 2012

I know my countdown says ONLY 51 days left but I'm oddly calm. Is anyone else not really that worried that things will come together? I'm sure things will change when we're down to 2 weeks or something and there are still things to do....but right now, I'm not really feeling rushed. Ever since my invites went out, I'm not really stressin too much. There are still some DIY things I need to do and some things I need to buy, but for the most part, it's just a matter of waiting....

Edit: I'm bummed I didn't get any RSVP's today...

carlowgirl10 · March 2012

Ive always been so far ahead...that im calm as well..

i still have to buy my cake topper and programs and toasting glasses...but thats it...and i already know what i want for all of those, i just need money lol

DianaL616 · March 2012

I am surprisingly calm at the moment too...

court115 · March 2012

I'm pretty calm too. I just want it to be here already.

LuckyHeather · March 2012

I had my last "decision making session" with our planner yesterday, so all I have left to do is the DIY stuff. I should have a lot of time this weekend, but if it doesn't get done I am sure I will start worrying.

Bett2012 · March 2012

I'm pretty calm too. My mom is calming down more, but she has been uptight about getting stuff done in time (I only have 4 weeks at home right now, I had 2 weeks at christmas and that's it for our whole engagment, and we're getting married in my parents' town), so I kind of just let her take on all the anxiety for the both of us since she would be anxious anyways :P If she's worrying, I don't have to! But I'm glad she's feeling more under control now

AurorasEnvy · March 2012

Don't worry, I feel the same way. Probably just because I'm past the point in my life where I worry too much about everything.

dland0201 · March 2012

I feel really calm as well.

spalko · March 2012

I've been really calm about everything too and my mom frequently asks what good drugs I'm on to make me feel this way since she's also worrying about something. From the moment we started planning, I set a goal to be completely done with everything the week before the wedding so in my head I am getting married May 19th instead of the 26th. I know it sounds weird but I don't want to be running around the week before stressing about all the small things. If things don't work out (as far as the little stuff goes) I'm sure that I'll be the only one that notices (or cares) for that matter. At the end of the day marrying my best friend is more important than centerpieces, napkins, and a candy buffet.

Killa2979 · March 2012

As of now, I feel ok :-)

deanabuonincontri · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_cool-as-a-cucumber?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:317b7b3b-6f56-4f82-95ff-8c8ce5a4c328Post:a7d81e5a-27d8-447d-a147-f80a6ffca75b">Re: Cool as a cucumber...</a>:
[QUOTE]I've been really calm about everything too and my mom frequently asks what good drugs I'm on to make me feel this way since she's also worrying about something. From the moment we started planning, I set a goal to be completely done with everything the week before the wedding so in my head I am getting married May 19th instead of the 26th. I know it sounds weird but I don't want to be running around the week before stressing about all the small things. If things don't work out (as far as the little stuff goes) I'm sure that I'll be the only one that notices (or cares) for that matter. At the end of the day marrying my best friend is more important than centerpieces, napkins, and a candy buffet.
Posted by spalko[/QUOTE]

This!! I'm getting married on the 26th too and I'm not feeling stressed. I know everything will be great and I agree....the week before the wedding is not the time to do stuff or stress. I'll be relaxing, getting a massage, nails done, tan, etc. I have to work up until two days before so I wanna take thursday and friday for myself...not for wedding stuff.

whitemt03 · March 2012

I've been feeling calm lately, and was starting to wonder what was wrong with me.

Glad to hear others are feeling calm! Right now the only thing really going on is that the RSVPs keep rolling in.

FutureMrsSheeler · March 2012

I'm more focused on findin a job oafter college than the wedding right now.. so I'm calm about the wedding!

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