I know that when you pray to God for something that you are to be "prayer specific" because you will get exactly what you asked for. Well, I asked for folks to follow instructions and send back their RSVP before the deadline. And for the most part we have been getting them back with little or no reminders given.
Now I received 6 in the mail today. Two of which were very disturbing. One person sent back their RSVP and it read:
"So and So Adams and 4 other people". WTF??????!!!!!!!!!!!!
The next one was the person's name and her sister which was cool we kind of figured she would bring her sister with her. Please tell me why she has two other names in addition to her and her sister. Those of whom I have NEVER MET or even had a conversation with and FI has not seen in like 15 yrs. Are you effin' kidding me?
I am not really sure they know what proper ettiquette is but how can you bring along folks who are not relevant to a wedding and expect for the bride and groom to feed them? I told FI that if these extra other folks come, I am going to need at least $17 a head because that is what it is going to cost me to feed these extra people. We were trying to stick to having our intimate number of 60 ppl. no more than 70. We are going to go over that by at least 15 folks if this keeps up. All I could do was shake my head on the way to work while checking off the list.
What would you do in this instance because I am blowed right now! And I know FI isnt going to say a thing to these folks. Then he gonna have me looking like the Bridezilla when I speak up.
