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Help with mailing some things!!!

Ok so a week ago we had a small(compared to the actual people inivited to my wedding) engagement party.. We had like 35ish people most were couples tho. the help I need is..... I probably only need to write 15-18 thank you cards for the EP. Now I am also all done my save the dates, and need to mail them soon. Do you think its ok to slip the ty card into the save the date? I mean its not for all the std's and I think the people will understand.. I asked two people, and my mom said its ok, my best friend said no(haha but I think she says the opposite of everything I ask). Please help!!!!! Thanks in advance!

Re: Help with mailing some things!!!

  • I personally would send them seperately.  I just feel like it'd be more gracious that way. 
  • Nope, send the Thank you separately from anything else.
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  • Personally, I would.  I don't think it's a big deal.  It sounds like your EP was close friends/relatives? 

    Is your wedding super formal?  If it is, I wouldn't.
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  • I would do them seperately.






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  • People gave you presents and you can't even spring for a stamp for the TY??  Poor, poor form.

    Send them separate.
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  • People came and gave us cards.  No gifts. 
  • I'd probably do them separately, but I don't think I would think it was wrong if I received them together.
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