Two invitations

SarahA2b · April 2012

I was calling and checking and my no RSVP people and two said they had never gotten the invite. So I mailed them new ones today. I only got one back in the big mailing and it wasn't them. Are any of the rest of you finding this problem?

xos0inlove · April 2012

I only had one return & sent it out again. About a week ago, my MOH said she never got one but assumed I didn't send one because she's obviously invited. It made me wonder if any others got lost along the way, because we still haven't heard from some people. Our RSVP deadline is in a week, so I guess I'll find out when I start calling people.

rardito · April 2012

I've only had one person say they didn't receive theirs, but we are still waiting on a ridiculous number of rsvps and the deadline is tomorrow.

feliswilderi · April 2012

I know people are getting my invitations because I have talked to them. I even sent out reminders of when to book room, flights, and to RSVP. I even put stamps and Pre addressed them. How much easier can I make it?! Still haven't heard from half the guest list. Deadline is one week. I guess some people are just like that. Hate having to babysit people! Not my job :

starree444 · April 2012

I had one invite sent back, and two other people said they never got theirs... Oh the joys of mail.

SarahA2b · April 2012

My FI says its because they don't want to say no. I don't know. I am pretty sure that one has a new address, but the others, no.

em01092 · April 2012

It's possible they got lost in the mail. It happens. Just let them know the details over the phone and see what they say. They have to give you an answer at some point.

If they still say they haven't received it, call them up and say, "The wedding is on April ____ in (city, state) at (time). The reception is from ____ to _____. Do you think you will be able to make it?"

Them: "We don't know yet."
"Ok, no worries! However, we have to give a confirmed number to the caterer by ______, so if we don't hear from you by then, we will have to assume you are a no."

This gives them an easy out if they are in fact trying to avoid turning you down.

chickenbut143 · April 2012

I had at least 5 say they didn't get them, luckily we invited those who we're close w/ so we asked if they got them about a week after we mailed them out. So, it didn't take us long to mail out new ones and they were still in the RSVP window. With that being said, I still have 3 families I haven't heard from, so we counted them as nos.

bridalgal50 · April 2012

DD had at least 2 never get their invites. We are past the due date by a week and need to give caterer the final count this week....and still have about 5 people that didn't respond. She contacted them by email/facebook/voicemail....and if they don't respond by Wed. we are assuming they are a "no". Gee, folks, how hard is it to check the little box and return an envelope that is already stamped?

cdbishop · April 2012

I was lucky and didn't hear of anyone not getting their invite

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