Pre-wedding Parties

Bachelorette party present for bride

I am a bridesmaid for my cousin's wedding and her bachelorette party is coming up soon. What should i get her? We are going bar hopping and I'm sure many of her friends are going to get her racy things, but I'm not comfortable getting her lingerie...any other ideas?

Re: Bachelorette party present for bride

  • trix1223trix1223 member
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    edited December 2011
    I've never known anyone to give or get presents for their b-parties.  Neither my DD nor DIL received gifts at theirs, and none of my 2 DD's or SIL have ever given gifts at them either.
    "Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
  • SuMmErKuTiESuMmErKuTiE member
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    edited December 2011
    Gifts definitely aren't required, but some people do bring them. I received some lingerie and some newlywed games and toys at my b-party, but not everyone brought something. Just a few of my BM's brought stuff.

    If you're not comfortable getting the bride lingerie, but you still want to get her something, I would just get her a gift card to Victorias Secret or get her some bath stuff... bubble bath, salts, etc... HTH!
  • Kate61487Kate61487 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_pre-wedding-parties_bachelorette-party-present-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:32Discussion:56e00dd2-00d2-4b7d-9f7e-c040c3330526Post:73c7cf71-0967-4dfa-84ee-c36335d57c46">Re: Bachelorette party present for bride</a>:
    [QUOTE]Gifts definitely aren't required, but some people do bring them. I received some lingerie and some newlywed games and toys at my b-party, but not everyone brought something. Just a few of my BM's brought stuff. If you're not comfortable getting the bride lingerie, but you still want to get her something, I would just get her a gift card to Victorias Secret or get her some bath stuff... bubble bath, salts, etc... HTH!
    Posted by SuMmErKuTiE[/QUOTE]

    This.  Or, depending on your plans for the evening, maybe a tiara or sash or something for the party itself?  My exSIL received penis shaped shot glasses and penis shaped straws (not sure if you're comfrotable with that, but it's less.. TMI? than lingerie to me). 
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