MY FIANCE AND I ARE THE ONLY ONES PAYING FOR OUR WEDDING. WE ORIGINALLY PLANNED ON DOING A DESTINATION WEDDING TO SAVE US THE COST OF HONEYMOON/WEDDING BUT ITS JUST NOT THE WEDDING WE WANT. I WANT RUSTIC/BARN FOR A "FALL IN LOVE" THEME. CAN ANYONE PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE?! (SORRY FOR CAPS, MY KEYBOARD STUCK THIS WAY)