I have looking through the boards, and I might have missed it...but I didn't see this answered elsewhere.
I am looking at a wedding in October/November of 2012
So....hotels.  While I think some offseason B&Bs are the nicest option, I think for the purpose of the wedding, an the crowd, a more typical hotel is best.
Does anyone know if The Hampton Inn has a wedding rate discount?  Fee to block?  A bar or lounge for a possible after party?  Or a conference room for a rehearsal?  
What about Holiday Inn, SK?
I am planning out of state so I'd like to have an idea ofthings before I call the places.  It just makes me feel better...I feel like I can be so easily suckered from way far away. Irrational, maybe, but it's true.