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BMD (Vent)

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Ok so FI and I had our e-pics yesterday. Since we had the photog booked for an hour, we decided to take family pics as well (haven't since Christmas). I have an 8 yr old daughter and his daughter is 4. Well his baby mama knew WAY in advance we needed to get her but somehow conveniently "forgot" so she ended up at her grandmas. Needless to say I was pissed so we just took them anyway with the 3 of us.
I'm so worried that this is the way things are going to go...her being a biotch when it comes to us having family time. I don't want his daughter to miss these moments plus I'm concerned she won't let her come to the wedding. Is anyone else experiencing baby mama drama? Yell
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  • hisbabygirl76hisbabygirl76 member
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    I had my fair share of BMD with my ex. It lasted for a few mths when we had first moved back in state and then got married. Then things settled down and we actually ended up as very close friends. She was my best support when makign the choice to get safe and get out of the situation.  Now on the other hand my ex had another child with another BM while we were married and that BMD was to the max. I am VERY glad I dont deal with it anymore.

    I am sorry that she messed up your day for your pictures. I do hope she doesnt do that for the wedding. Hopefully that will all go well and you will be able to do family pictures with everyone dressed in their best.
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  • RebCapponRebCappon
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    Yikes. I don't have kids but that really sucks. :(
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  • SRRL18SRRL18 member
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    Wow, that sucks. I hope she gets better at these things. Try to look at her from her point, you know you won't replace her, but the BM might feel threatened.
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    Thanks guys. Hopefully one day we can talk like adults....this is new for everyone. I feel bad for FI, he's stuck in the middle.
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