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Maid of Honor Vs. Bridesmaid

pinkprincess1952pinkprincess1952
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Ok So Im going to try to make this as simple as possible... Just a couple days ago my maid of honor posted a comment on facebook and our other friend which is the bridesmaid made a rude comment about what moh posted... Now they are fighting and I cant get my moh to comunicate with me... What should I do?
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  • jagore08jagore08 member
    Seventh Anniversary 5000 Comments 5 Love Its Combo Breaker
    Stay out of it.  They're both, presumably, adults and can work out their own problems.  If you get involved one, or both, of them will end up getting upset with you.

    SN: People take FB way too seriously.  
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  • jnjmommy0609jnjmommy0609 member
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    edited August 2012
    ah proof that we never truly leave highschool. 

    I agree with staying out of it. They will realize they are both being ridiculous on their own times
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  • Carson386Carson386 member
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    My MOH and one bridesmaid hate eachother, I just stay out of it. Let them fight all they want, you don't have to take sides.
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  • Maggie0829Maggie0829 member
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    Stay out of it.  This is not your problem.  Both your MOH and BM are adults and can work this out between themselves.  And if they don't want to work it out then that is their choice.

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  • mila31mila31 member
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    Leave it alone! Let them work it out amongst themselves and secure a back-up bridesmaid in case one of them decides to pull out.
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  • Summer2011BrideSummer2011Bride member
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    Definitely stay out of drama between them, especially on FB no less. They don't have to be best friends; they can hopefully, and should be able to, act like adults when they have to be around each other.


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  • twotimemobtwotimemob member
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    Mila, why would OP have to "secure a back-up bridesmaid"?  So you say to another friend, "hey, heads up, if my bridesmaid backs out, will you fill in?"  Then, "oops, sorry, won't be needing your services after all"...???  OP does not need to keep a back-up bridesmaid on stand by.
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  • GoodLuckBear14GoodLuckBear14 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_maid-of-honor-vs-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:357Discussion:db1183b4-6718-4ec8-952a-679cb90f7126Post:6b3a6bcd-47e3-4ad0-8d4c-67a95f9227cc">Re: Maid of Honor Vs. Bridesmaid</a>:
    [QUOTE]Leave it alone! Let them work it out amongst themselves and secure a back-up bridesmaid in case one of them decides to pull out.
    Posted by mila31[/QUOTE]

    Bad advice.  You don't ask people to be in your WP to fill up space.  You ask them because they are those closest to you.
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  • Kimberly0402Kimberly0402 member
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    Dont' feel bad....apparently you can't have more than 1 best friend. My MOH is my day to day best friend and one of my bridesmaids is my best friend since I was a teenager, but nw lives half way around the world. Everything with my MOH was great until the BM arrived from Australia. If my BM still lived here, she would have been my MOH, but it wasn't possible. Once she saw us together she became very intimidated/territorial of me as far as my BM went. My BM took care of making mani/pedi appointments for us and my MOH talked down to her like she was incapable. She even made a "dig" at her in her MOH speech. Things with my MOH haven't been the same since.
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