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tiffielynn91 · May 2012

have you guys started pre martial counselling? we haven't and are almost to the 5 month mark. when should we start? how long does it take?

gundy21 · May 2012

Check with your minister/officiant. We did ours (completed an online survey and then 4 hour long sessions, I think) in January and February for an April wedding.

tiffielynn91 · May 2012

well there is the issue. we are not having the current pastor do our wedding and the guy that my FI wanted he may not be available . just wondering if its too early to start.

cinderellasjc · May 2012

We had our first meeting about an hour long at about the 6 month mark. We have another scheduled in a couple of weeks (planning about 2 hours), and one final meeting about a week out.

BrooklynBride20 · May 2012

The requirement we had to meet was that our pre-cana classes had to be completed at least 6 months before our wedding and we just made the deadline with only 1 week to spare.

You need to check with your church/officiant to see if they have any requirements. In some instances the classes may not be required however I have never heard anyone say they wished they hadn't gone to pre-martial counseling of some sort. Even if it hadn't been required I know we would have gone anyway.

cwill6212 · May 2012

We just had 4 sessions, each an hour long. We started the first Sat of Feb and we had our last one this past weekend. You still have time, but I would start looking into it.

becka717 · May 2012

We had the last of 4 meeting this past weekend. I think we started in mid January. Definitely figure out who you will be doing it with.

tiffielynn91 · May 2012

thanks ladies.

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