i am trying to stay awake i have had horrible nights sleep the past 3 nights esp. last night where i got almost no sleep. i dont want to go to bed too early because then i will wake up in the middle of the night and not be able to sleep again! so i decided to keep myself busy and sit at the dinning room table instead of the couch since on the couch i will fall asleep! so i am in the process of stuffing my invites. FI comes home with roses and a card he hands them to me < my birthday is tom> i give him a big hug etc. then i look at the card in my hand and start freaking out because the envelope is white not ecru ... i was like" oh my god where did this white envelope come from ? why was this mixed in with all the wedding invites i just put an invitation into the wrong color envelope!" fi is just looking at me like i have 5 heads !!! lol i am so tired!