From TIP:
Desperately Need to Vent and Advice Would Be Awesome!
So, this is my story. My husband and I were married when I was 18 and he was 35. After 6yrs of marriage I left him and divorced him because I was always home alone and he was always out drinking and enjoying his life, I had suspicions of him cheating but was never able to find evidence.
He married someone else and had a child and after 8yrs of being apart he left his wife and told me he did so because he still loved me and wanted to be with me. I dated him for a year to make sure we were both where we needed to be in the relationship and we were so we got re-married and have been together ever since with our son whom is now in college.
Everything was fine until September 26, the day before our 2nd wedding anniversary when his niece approached me to tell me that her brother's girlfriend had told her that my husband stopped by her home to visit her (she lives alone and is his nephew's on/off girlfriend) and that while she was making coffee for him he tried to kiss her and told her he wanted to be with her and that she immediately kicked him out of her house and told him how dare he and that she would never do that to his nephew or to me.
I was devastated and especially the day before our 2nd re-anniversary. We had a huge fight and I was not speaking to him and was going to leave him, but later that same week I received the news from my doctor that I had breast cancer and they would need to do a double mastectomy and that they had found cancer in my ovaries as well and they would need to do a hysterectomy as well. It was a devastating week for me and the weeks to follow were worse as the surgeries came, the treatments, complications from the surgeries and depression. I did not have time to digest the whole situation and he did stay by my side and was there with me at the hospital everyday and sleeping in a chair to be by my side and has done everything possible to make me feel loved and help me through.
Now that I am better I am able to begin analyzing what happened and I am so confused, I don't know if I can trust him again and don't know if I can stay with him but then he has been there for me now when I needed him the most and I do love him. Please give me your thoughts.