Don't pick out your bridesmaids so quickly!!
Especially if your wedding isn't till the following year
I started off with 6 bridal party attendants last June. My MOH, and 5 Bridesmaids. For the past 4-5 months my friendship with one of my bridesmaids from CO (rest are from NJ) has been dying down. I just don't look at her as one of my close friends anymore and when I get like this I distance myself from that person, which is what I have been doing. Long story short - she had to much family drama that got me and my FI involved and that's when I cut the friendship.
I didn't want to deal with other families dramas especially since my family was pretty drama free. It was creating problems with my FI and I so I
ENDED the friendship.
I didn't tell her she wasn't apart of my party anymore because I figured she would be smart enough to know without me saying anything...bad?
I feel sad and hurt that things didn't work out but things happen for a reason. I realized who my true friends are and realized how strong of a relationship I had with my NJ ladies I grew up with...
