Hi there
So I've registered at a couple of places for my bridal shower. One of the stores sends me an email each time a gift is purchased and also sends me an email when the item is ready for pick up at the store. The actual event is not until end of August but I just got an email telling me that Person A just bought me XYZ and is ready for pick up.
Questions: Am I supposed to pick up the item before the shower? if yes, am I supposed to bring it to the shower or just take it home and thank them when I get the card? Am I supposed to wait until the event occurs, get the card from Person A telling me they bought XYZ gift, act surprised and then go pick up the item? Basically do I wait for the event to occur before I pick up the item.
The store really did not explain the etiquette and has really ruined the surprise of who bought what by emailing me