My best friend/cousin got engaged last Novemeber and set her wedding date for 11/12/11. My fiance and I recently got engaged and decided that we would like to get married this year, Around October/November. BUT my cousin already set her date for November and since we are family, we will be inviting a lot of the same guests. Is it wrong of me to "step on her toes" and plan my wedding close to hers? or should we wait till next year? We also don't want to burden our guests with having to worry about 2 weddings within a few weeks of eachother. HELP! I'm not sure what to do! I also don't wanna hurt my best friend/cousins feelings. What would you do?? Or better yet, what is the "proper" thing to do?