So I am having a hard time choosing from my brides maids who will be my MOH. Let me prefrece that I love all these girls and they are so dear to me that is what makes it so hard to choose.
BM 1 - Known since 3rd grade. Has the biggest heart of anyone I know. Though doesn't always gives her friends much of her time lately especially if there is a guy in her life that she is obessed over (which there is, who is completely horrible). She just seems a little stuck back when we were in high school and hasn't grown up and that isn't fully her fault because she still lives at home, works two jobs, trying to finish school (slowly) and her parents are wacked out divorce. I love her and thought she would be my MOH but her behavior lately with her bad dating life and never returing friends calls etc I have been questioning whether she would be responsible enough and actually want to be my MOH.
BM 2 - Also known since 3rd grade. Was crazy in high school and we fell apart for a few years but now we are great friends again. She has been super supportive and always offered help in any form for the wedding. She has grown up a lot over the years. Went with my mom and I dress shopping, but I never imagined her as my MOH. I love her trust me.
BM 3 - Know since the first day of high school. Is very shy at first around new people (she claims I brought her out of her shell in high school). She now is studying at the American University of Paris in France but graduates in the Spring. I think she might get nervous giving a speech in front of a group of people though.
BM4- Known since the first day of College. We lived together for two years and is one the nicest / smartest people I know. She also has amazing calligraphy skills (which I might pay her to help me write my envelopes) and one the best writers I know. which I know she would do an amazing MOH speech for us. She is recetnly married. She also knows my FI the best out the girls since I met him in college and he was around her a lot when we were dating.
like I said I love them all so much I don't know who to pick. They are all so great to me and support me. I wish I didn't have to pick anyone but I do because people expect a MOH and a MOH speech etc, plus there is already a BM. HELP! I need some other people's perspectives.
TIA