After much thought and discussion, I finally decided to ask my brother to be a "brides bro" and stand on my side for the wedding. I really wanted him in the wedding party, but my FI didn't want to have him as a groomsman (and that was fine with me).
My bro had brought up the concern that he might stick out if he is standing on my side but dressed the same as all the groomsmen. While we haven't finalized the groomsmen attire yet, I understand his thinking.
So my question is, should he match the groomsmen, or be different and somehow try to match the bridesmaids? My girls are wearing a light blue (Cinderella blue) dress with silver shoes. I was thinking of having the guys wear either gray or black tuxes with white shirts and light blue vests/ties.
Also, if anyone has had a bridesman, could you share some pictures, just so I can get a mental idea of what it will look like. Preferrably ones of the ceremony where everyone is on their "side". Thanks !