different view PIP

Here is a close up of the detail on my dress.  I'm worried about the gold around the pattern because I ordered that silver orchid set.  I was so excited when I found my dress I didn't notice the gold in it.  Do you think the jewelry will look bad?

Also I wasn't gonna have it steamed when I got there because my seamstress said that I could easily just iron underneath the tulle and it woul d be ok, but the top-bust part is really wrinkled.  I can't do anything with that so I may need to call a seamstress.