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weird wedding dreams

casey414casey414 member
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I find myself having dreams (sometimes close to being nightmares) about my wedding. Hair lady not showing up so photographer has to do my hair, FI showing up in tee shirt and jeans, losing my dress, frizzy hair, huge column in the church blocking everyone's view of the altar. It's not an every night thing, but maybe about once a month or every other month.
So I was just wondering if anyone else has these crazy dreams and what's your weirdest/ scariest/ most outrageous wedding dream?
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Re: weird wedding dreams

  • MyNameIsNotMyNameIsNot member
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    You are 100% normal.  Almost everyone has these anxiety dreams about such a big event. 

    I used to dream that I showed up at the church in my PJs and everyone was waiting, so I'd have to get married in PJs with no make up on. 

    The weirdest one was I dreamed that everyone got screwed up about what city the wedding was in, so all the vendors and all the guests went to my grandmother's house, 2 states away, and we had to do the whole thing in her back yard. 
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    It's totally normal. I was having severe dress anxiety and had dreams about my dress being delivered in the wrong color, style, etc. I think our major concerns are just at the back of our minds and when we sleep, it gets the best of us in our dreams. Even my FI has had dreams about not having a tux the day of the wedding!
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  • emarston1emarston1 member
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    edited December 2009
    I haven't had too many dreams (yet anyway, I'm still really early in the planning process) but I did have a funny one.  FI wants to wear a white tux (which I really don't want) so I had a dream that he was wearing his white tux and was eating cheetos.  He got that orange cheese dust ALL over his tux and then proceeded to wipe his hands on the tux.

    Needless to say, I was not too happy with him in the dream.
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  • HinajHinaj member
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    I had wierd dreams years before we were planning to get married. lol.  His friends get him drunk right before the wedding and that is how he arrives.  But I think it is perfectly normal to have those kinds of dreams.
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  • My_MattMy_Matt member
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    My friend had such bad anxiety and dreams, she had to get meds from her Dr. I am praying that doesn't happen to me.
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    I wonder if Prince William and Kate are registered at Target?
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  • casey414casey414 member
    Eighth Anniversary 10 Comments
    love the cheetos dream! sounds like something my FI would do!
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  • cnd1127cnd1127
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    i have yet to have nightmares about this--- i probably do enough worrying during the day.. lol...  but from everyone else I know-- you are perfectly normal!!
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  • heddee6678heddee6678 member
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    So bizarre--I actually just posted about this today without scrolling down and reading other posts first.  In the last month or so I dreamed:

    --my dress didn't fit.

    --all my flowers arrived and were purple instead of green.

    --I forgot to write my vows and had to come up with something on the spot.

    --it came time to put my dress on and I forgot my bra and had to send a friend to Wal-Mart to pick one up.

    --my groom showed up with incredibly long hair because he didn't get a haircut.

    --I forgot to give my bm gifts to my bms!

    And our engagement is 15 months, so I haven't really been stressing.  So this is weird!  

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