I know religon is very touchy. So please understand this isnt a debate over wether I should believe in it or not.
FI is a believer. He understands that I am not. I believe in evolution amoung other things. We decided to go with a wedding officant who is a pastor at FI father's church, we have yet to have a meeting with and will in the coming weeks.
Im curious if anyone has ran into any issues with a pastor not marrying you because you dont believe in god? We are not getting married in a church either.I am willing to accept that 95% at the wedding DO believe in god and there will be a prayer. I am able to bow my head in respect for others beliefs but I dont feel like our ceremony needs to lay heavily on god. I told FI if I have to repeat a quote or saying or whatever that has the word god or is god based I will do so for him. How do you go abouts having a religous but non religous ceremony with a pastor allowing it???