First of all I hope everyone's planning is going good. Personally I can't believe where the time is going! So with that I have an issue, my MOH, who is my cousin and has always been like a sister. We've said that we would be each other's MOH, so when I got engaged I knew that wasn't even a question. Now I am questioning my decision! She has not once in the last eight months asked if I needed help with something or how the wedding planning was going. I was talking to a friend about this and she said I wasn't expecting too much and she should be asking me, I shouldn't have to be chasing her down to help me with stuff. She doesn't have kids or go to school, so it's not like she doesn't have time. I feel like I have made hints that I need help with stuff. We also had an issue that she seemed more worried about what shoes she would be wearing since won't wear heels. She even brought this up to my parents.
I feel frustrated also because she has never mentioned anything about a shower or if anyone was holding one for me. My/our aunt was in the hospital really sick and mentioned that she wanted to have a shower for me. It brought tears to my eyes because I know she needs to feel better first. I saw her a couple weeks ago and she was serious about hosting a shower for me and now that she is feeling better will are going through with it. My MOH has no idea yet, I was hoping should ask me about it yet.! My FI sister and aunt were even going to host a shower. I am terribly blessed with those who have truely been part of this process! I want to say something but I am terribly fearful that it will lead to a huge arguement, because when she's upset, it's overly upset. I don't feel like she's been a good MOH and was not expecting this at all! Sorry it's kind of long but I had to get this off my chest! I just don't know what to do!!!