I don't have a relationship with my father and he will not be invited to the wedding. I have known that I wont have a father/daughter dance for years, but it still upsets me when I go to other people's weddings and watch the dance. I usually have to walk outside to keep from crying.
My fiance knows I have a hard time with this, but he doesn't think his mom will be ok not having a Mother/Son dance. I understand that it is important to her, but I'd rather not cry any sad tears at my own wedding.
Any ideas on alternatives or ways to approach the conversation with his mother?